Confession #1. I use Grindr, big surprise right(not). I am the type of guy that gets on grindr and never gets a message from anyone, and if by chance i do get a message they're from guys older than my dad telling me how sexy I am (thanks but no thanks). I live by a double standard, I want someone who is under 25 and is cute I dont care about there personality, all I am is personality, im not cute enough for the sexy 25 year old. I am attractive to the 46 year old married,fat, hairy guy